What Makes Her Closed Minded

Have you all seen the new Ciara video “Ride”, well I did and I can say that I was far from pleased. Well this lead to a conversation I had with my friend today... she thinks that I am a closed minded person. I was really surprised because I think that I am pretty much open to almost anything within reason, which I think every person should be. It’s always a good thing to try out new things so that you’re not stuck within the same pattern, but you don’t want to lose who you are as a person neither, you need to set some kind boundaries. She was talking about how I Never take risk or chances, whatever I want to call it, but dreading my hair and my piercings aren’t included because those are “simple”. (Even though I don’t think there is nothing simple about dreading my hair, I will leave that alone) she was saying that I live in a safe zone and that all those simple characteristics that I seem to possess shows that I am not ready to try “NEW” things. I was just given statements and no examples of when this has occurred. On Twitter she was saying something about me not liking mouth piercings (and she mentioned nipple rings, but I don’t have a problem with it I just think that would kill) I just personally don’t like them for me, any of the sorts, but for the people who have them hey, to each their own. I will just end with this, if me picking and choosing what kind of activities and what not, that I would like to take part in makes me closed minded, well then hey, I have no problem with that, because staying true to myself and making myself happy is far more important than taking risk or chances to every single thing that is thrown at me. I still have mad love for my girl though, it was a healthy debate <3
-Just in Her.Daze